Reasons for the break-ups in long distance relationships

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Breakup Long distance

Prema palu rakaalu.. andulo ee madya update ayina technology tho long distance relationships baaga ekkuva aipoyay. Smart phone chethilo unte chaalu partner pakkane unnatlu feel aipothunnaru. Chatting.. Video calling.. ila N number of options vachesaayi. Inni unnaa present break ups ekkuvaga unna relations kuda long distance relationships. Asalenduku e relations break up daaka vasthunnay ! Why ?

1.) Communication :-

Dagara leru anna maate kaani edo oka vidhanga touch lo untaru. Padukune time thappa migithaa time antha edo duty chesinatle matladthu leda chat chesthu untaru.. ala chesi chesi okaroju visigipoyi partner oka burden la maaripoyi.. dhooram start ayyi adi break up daaka vasthundi.

2.) Financial things :-

Basic ga okate place lo unde couples elagola daily kakapoyina weekends lunch ki leda dinner ki kalustu untaru. Long distance vaalu plan cheskoni..leaves pettukoni.. tickets book cheskoni.. oyammoo..!! Aa event manager panulu cheyyaleka chirakese stage ki ochestaru.

3.) Social life :

Khaali time lo friends tho gadapalanukunna leda social media surf cheyyalanukunna kuda kastame. Aithe calls leda msgs tho busy aipotharu. Cheyyakapothe oka bhaada.. chesthe oka bhaada.. ! Friends tho dobbulu tinaleka.. partner pette bungumoothi leda aligithe sorry lu cheppukoleka.. prapanchaniki sambhandam lekunda partner nee prapancham anukuntu bhathakaleka chivariki chirakesi.. break up!!

4.) Insecurity :-

Anumaanalu avi evi ani kaadandi.. relationship lo nenu 100% isthunnana.. Am I correct or not ? Partner adjust avthunnara ? Inka emaina cheyyala ? Ilanti questions tho mind fill aipothe inka relation lo em migulthundi..

5.) Sacrifice :-

Okari kosam okaru edo oka stage lo sacrifice aithe cheyyakathappadhu.. at a point love nee cheyyalsina situation kuda ravachu.. normal ga aithe ekkadaina pairs ni chusthe bhaada , kopam , aasha ila anni kalisina oka mixed feeling tho untaru.. ila miss ainapudu avasaram ah idantha ane feeling kuda vasthundi.

6.) Intimacy :-

Final ga etu tirigina.. last ki ikkadike raavali.. manishiga puttaaka general needs anevi common.. ala ani prathi daaniki technology ni vaadalemu..ayina thappaka skype vaadestharu.. long distance lo unna vaalaki e point baaga ekkesthundi.. deeni gurunchi entha thakkuva matladukunte antha manchidi ( ledante malli article ki A certificate ) ichestaru.

Basically , in the long distance relationships.. distance plays a vital role. So the distance leads to frustration.. Frustration leads to fights.. Fights lead to Break up.. It’s the inevitable cycle of long distance relationships. ( Success stories kuda untayi.. inni daatukoni success ayina vaariki idhe maa salaam )